Reposted from a puppy buyer/friend

The following two posts were written by my good friend and puppy owner – I am sharing because I feel its worthy of being on this blog. So often I get calls and emails from people wanting to buy a Stafford puppy but they haven’t done any research – all they can think about is – I WANT A PUPPY. I WANT A PUPPY NOW. HERE IS MY LENGTHY LIST OF CRITERIA AND THIS IS WHAT I WILL PAY YOU.  Uhm…

Please be more responsible when selecting your puppy. In todays throwaway world all too often people buy puppies for all the wrong reasons. Its not fair to the dog, not fair to you and not fair to those of us doing rescue who end up cleaning up the mess. Not every breed is right for every person. Not every breeder produces the same quality puppies.

I choose not to be listed on my parent club breeder referral list because basically any member of the club with the money to pay for the listing can advertise. There is no screening but when speaking with potential puppy buyers I found out that it is implied they have been screened, approved and wholeheartedly a better choice. This is not always true. I also don’t fully utilize the AKC Marketplace for the same reasons. I usually dont post show win photos on my website but I have shared them on the fb page I have for my dogs and their lives. For me, those who have fully read my blog/website and reached out with phone calls/emails and make that effort are the people I like to get to know. We decide together if we make a good team. I like the personal interaction.

This is her post:
“Reposting for those of you looking for a puppy…

I bought a dog from a breeder, just as many of you have, or will do. I thought I’d share the process that I went through with you.

My decision on the breed was made many years ago, way before I was ready to get one. I researched. I read everything that I could find- some of it accurate, some of it fluff (there is always someone writing fluff, trying to sell their puppies. Pretty much, if a breeder tells you that their breed has NO negative traits, they’re not telling you everything.). I went out to the parent club’s website (every AKC breed has a parent club) and found that they have a breeder referral list. I decided to start there. (Be careful- some breed clubs don’t have any criteria for who’s on their list. If they breed, they’re there – you will still have to weed through the list for a responsible breeder). I visited and bookmarked a TON of websites. Unfortunately for the average person, all breeder’s websites look a like. They all have pictures of the dogs, and they all spew some dog show jargon that sounds impressive to the untrained ear. I’m not 100% sure how to teach you how to spot the real deal, as recently I have seen some breeder websites that I really had to dig to determine if they were responsible breeders, or some shyster just breeding dogs. A couple of big tells are if the breeder is talking as if they show their dogs, there should be REAL dog show pictures – with ribbons, and judges, and a little plaque that says the date and what they’ve won (or performance pictures will be captioned with the title earned). Don’t believe it just because it’s on the Internet – go to the AKC site and search the dogs and see if they really have earned those wins. For anyone reading this who says that they don’t care if the breeder shows dogs or not, please see my previous facebook rant, I mean, informational post:  (see her other post below)  (this Is also where I discuss the price of dogs, and what you get for that price). If a breeder says their dogs have health clearances, check them out! OFA (Orthopedic Foundation for Animals) has a website where all you need is the dog’s name to search. Take the time and do the search! I have done TONS of searches for people, only to learn that the dog I searched doesn’t really have any clearances! If a breeder talks about their dog’s temperaments, how do they know? If the dogs live in a kennel situation, they don’t know unless their doing something with the dogs (dog shows, obedience, agility, etc). How do they know what the dogs are like in real life situations – going for walks in a neighborhood, reaction to the vacuum cleaner, do they spook because the ceiling fan is on, what are they like when company comes over, etc. Manners are taught, behavior is GENETIC. And look for the ‘over done’ website – the website that is geared just towards selling puppies.

I saw some wonderfuI websites, with some beautiful dogs, who had some big wins. There were a few who met my criteria – I was looking for a performance dog, with good structure, a solid temperament, and who’s parents were health tested. I am picking a member of my family – I am not going to cut corners. In the end, I had my eye on one breeder in particular. To me, it was a pretty easy choice based on the one thing that made her different from the rest – she is a raw feeding, all natural breeder. To me, this was important. For you, it may not be – everyone has different goals and priorities. I sent her an email. I sent a detailed introduction of who I am, what I could offer one of her puppies, and what kind of life he would have with me. I must have made an impression, because I received a reply and a phone call. I was interviewed. I was asked a lot of questions, and had to fill out a very detailed application. I was happy to do it. It meant that she is being responsible about where her dogs go, and what kind of life they would have. In the end, after some more questions from both sides, we agreed that we were a good match.

That was 10 months before I got my puppy. If you want a puppy the day you start looking, or for Christmas, or for someone’s birthday, you’re doing it wrong. First, you chose the breeder, then you look at the dogs she is going to breed, and if you’re happy with that, you wait. I have had people wait as long as 2 years to get one of my puppies. Breeders can’t make their girls go into season.

Over the months, I kept in touch with the breeder. I didn’t constantly send her emails asking if her girl has been bred – I knew she would let me know when she was ready. With Facebook, keeping in touch was easy. Over the months, she would get to know me better, and I would get to know more about her dogs and her dog ethics (she does rescue, is anti commercial breeders, is involved in her breed club, etc). The entire time I waited, I was prepared to walk away from the whole thing. As much as I thought that I liked her and her dogs, if something were to come up that I couldn’t compromise on, or made me uncomfortable, I would have started my search for a breeder all over again. I have met many, MANY people who settle on a breeder and even if there are screaming red flags, they will still get a puppy from them. You have to be prepared to walk away all the way up to the moment that you sign the contract (the most common story I hear is that people get to the breeder’s home and find that it is somewhere they feel they need to rescue the puppy from, or they get there and can obviously see that the puppy is timid and will not be the happy, well adjusted dog they had been promised).

And then the call came, the bitch had been bred! And now more waiting. Is she really pregnant? How many puppies will she have? Will there be a male in there for me? I wonder how many other people she has waiting? Are they ahead of me? Even if there is a male, will he have the temperament that I want? And the LEAST important thing was, I wonder what color they will be? You should not chose a dog by the color of his hair! Do I have a personal preference? Of course! Did I get it? Nope. I never have! I have a house full of wonderful dogs and cats, who have amazingly wonderful temperaments, none of which are the colors that I would have chosen if that were my only criteria.

4 puppies were born, 3 were males – things were looking good for me. Now to wait for them to get up on their feet so that structure and temperament could be evaluated.

I consider myself very lucky to have found an exceptional breeder. She met all my basic criteria, and then some. She had people visit the puppies, so strangers wouldn’t stress them. She did Early Neurological Stimulation with the puppies:…. She followed a mind stimulating, socialization program called Puppy Culture (Avidog has a similar program She started their clicker training at 4 weeks old. Do you have any idea how nice it is to have your puppy offer a sit to everyone he meets, from the day you get him, without having had put any work into it??? She took them for trips to parks and other people’s homes. She introduced them to water and tiny little agility equipment (not all the puppies will use those skills, but all of them will benefit from the confidence such things build). She crate trained them, and started the housebreaking process. She laid all the groundwork for a well adjusted, confident dog. You have no idea how important this stuff is until your dog is about 2 years old and you realize that he’s the easiest dog you’ve ever had.

I didn’t get to pick my puppy. Why should I? Even if I spent 2 or 3 hours with the pups, it’s a drop in the bucket compared to the amount of time the breeder spent with them. First, the breeder needed to evaluate them on structure – which are the show dogs, and which are the pets (and pet status can be obtained by something as silly as a crooked tooth, or a mismarking – nothing that a pet home would care about, but is a big deal in the show world), which are the performance dogs, and which are the couch potatoes. A good breeder doesn’t just want to sell their puppies, they want everyone involved to be happy. I hear people talk about their puppy picking them, and while it’s a nice, romantic idea, it is not all that it’s cracked up to be.

I picked him up at 9 weeks. This was a compromise on the breeders part. She normally doesn’t let them go until 10-12 weeks (my puppies don’t leave until they are 10 weeks). The old ‘the younger, the better’ theory has been blown out of the water by research that says ‘no younger than 8 weeks’ (and 8 weeks is pushing it). Puppies who stay with their litter longer are more well adjusted, less bitey, and much more confident.…/2015/01/49-Day-Myth-1.pdf. At 4 weeks old, puppies are just getting stable on their feet, and are starting to interact. At 5 and 6 weeks, they are interacting more, but they do a lot of falling over, so it’s all still very awkward. At 7 and 8 weeks, they are starting to have personalities and they are learning appropriate behavior from each other. At 9 and 10 weeks, they are learning social structure and more appropriate behaviors (like, ‘Ouch! You bit me too hard. I won’t play with you when you do that’). I actually would have preferred to have left him for another week, but I was going to have to travel to get him, and work was making 10 weeks near impossible. We both agreed that since I am a seasoned dog owner, and have multiple other dogs, I would be able to make up for that lost week or 2.

And it doesn’t end there. When you get a dog from a responsible breeder, you get an expert in the breed for the rest of the dog’s life. I have text and called and asked questions, and I will continue to do so for years to come. Many of my local puppy buyers even have me come with them on major vet visits – I am happy to do it. Although you bought the puppy, and he is all yours, a good breeder will care what happens to him the rest of his life. A good breeder is there for you and her puppy for the dog’s ENTIRE life (including taking that dog back, for any reason, at any time).

Remember, your dog is the only family member you get to choose. Choose wisely.

Feel Free to share!”


This is her original post topic
“So, I slept on it… and I still feel the same way… so here it goes…

I have been helping a friend find a puppy. She wants a specific breed, for a specific purpose, with a specific temperament. I have found her several responsible breeders who I think would have puppies that would fit all of her criteria. Then she says to me, “I just want you to know that I am not spending $1,000 on a dog. Not when so many need homes.” And you know, if that was the end of what she said, and she wanted help finding a rescue dog, I would have been all about helping her. But she is still not opposed to buying a puppy… just not one for $1000. So, at first, it didn’t really register what she said, but as I thought about it, I became more and more offended. Because basically what she said to me was that as a responsible breeder, my dogs are not worth any more than Joe-shmoe’s down the block… that all the time, effort, and money that I have put into health testing, temperament testing, training, proving, and selecting my dogs for breeding has no value. I have to say, this really got under my skin. Maybe it’s because I have driven my girls as far as CA to breed to the most perfect stud dog that I could find… or that I just spent over $2000 on progesterone tests, and I still don’t have a litter to show for it… or maybe it’s because I have proven my dog’s over and over again, and it just plain pissed me off that someone doesn’t see the value in that.

So, what do you get for a $1000 puppy? Proven temperament and trainability… mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, and great grand parents for many generations are trained and temperament tested- and they have been to a million dog shows, earning titles to prove it all. Proven health… mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, and great grand parents for many generations have had their hips, elbows, knees, eyes, heart, & thyroid tested, they are clear of all genetic disease that I can possibly know of. They are to breed standard… which may not mean a lot to you, but it should. It’s what keeps a Rottweiler from looking like a Black and Tan Coonhound, or a Bernese Mountain dog. It’s what maintains structure and soundness, and what makes a breed a breed. You also get me. You get a knowledgeable breeder and expert in your breed. You can call me day or night, and even on holidays. I am there for you through all your joys and frustrations, sickness and health. I will do anything I need to do to make sure that owning one of my puppies is the most wonderful experience of your life. You have the peace of mind knowing that no matter what ever happens to you, your dog, your best friend, has a safe place to live out the rest of his life.

So what about that $400 puppy out of the paper? You get a puppy with unknown temperament, health, and type. You get nothing else. You can potentially get a dog genetically predisposed to fears and aggression, a dog with debilitating health issues, a dog who will never be able to fulfill the goals that you have set out for him. And if you ever needed to return that dog (life can sometimes throw you a curve ball), that person will not take your 5 or 8 or 10 year old dog back… you will be stuck putting your dog up for adoption, or euthanizing him.

So, who’s making money? I have never actually figured it out, but I would guess that I lose about $1,000/puppy. I don’t breed dogs to make money. I breed dogs because I love my breed and I believe that there are wonderful people out there who should have the opportunity to own wonderful dogs. The person selling the $400 puppy is making a profit of about $350/puppy. That person breeds purely for profit. Oh, I am sure they love their dogs, and their breed, but not enough to be any benefit to anyone other than themselves.

I guess people don’t really understand value. It is not about the price you pay, but what you are getting for that price. And in the end, if what you are getting for $1000 is not worth anything to you, then by all means, the $400 puppy is a much better value.

I have not told anyone who I am talking about. She is my friend, and I would like to keep it that way, so please do not guess or spread rumors. And please feel free to share if you agree.”

The Wavemaker Family Grows

I don’t have a beautiful shiny floored announcement graphic made up, although being a graphic artist I certainly could make one. I don’t feel I really need to make them and really haven’t announced upcoming matings, planned breedings, confirmed pregnancies or puppy arrivals on FB or on this page. Our approved new owner wait list is so much longer than we could ever fulfill that we really never feel the need to advertise. The few times we posted an advert on the AKC Marketplace we ended up getting dozens of requests from tire kickers, brokers and other unsuitable people for our puppies.

We prefer to get to know people over a long period of time. We become friends, almost like family, with our buyers. We remain in regular touch – probably more than most actual family members do. We support one another, cheer each other on, cry on each others shoulders and vent to one another when needed. We share photos and videos almost daily with some of our puppy owners.

People come to us for a puppy for very specific reasons. Most of those people have been following our blog, have read our website in full multiple times, naturally rear already or plan to, and are seeking an honest breeder who can prove all health testing is done. They also appreciate our dedication to preserving the breed, appreciation for sharing the history of the breed (not sugar coating it) and our work with rescue. They are already involved with doing things with dogs or are prepared to with a new one. They already know about and follow The Stafford Knot, they chuckle and appreciate the #staffordnotstaffy movement and are excellent pet owners on top of all that. They know we do Puppy Culture because not only do they follow along themselves but also they have known us long enough that they have seen the results from past litters. You cant make this up. You cant really fake PC, although so many other breeders do.

We do not sell to ‘collectors’, title chasers, breeders or people who consider themselves to be ‘in the industry’. Our buyers are special people whom we respect and would enjoy spending time with. They visit when they can and we visit with them. I would have to say the same goes for stud dog owners we work with. This small Wavemaker family has grown slowly over the last 15 years and today is exactly the family we want to be a part of.

Our family will be growing shortly. Shea and Bay are expecting puppies around 2 July, 2018 and Smithy (Shea x Marina) leaves us soon for his new home. We could sell a dozen puppies easily to pre-approved homes so that always means heart break for some folks who have been waiting a long time. Mother Nature always has the last word on these matters. We do all we can to support our choices, but in the end it is out of our control. In some ways this is a comfort. Dogs are not puppy vending machines. We do not get to select how many puppies will be born, what sexes they will be or any issues with pregnancy, whelp, raising of healthy babies. We do all we can and accept the rest.

If you are one of the lucky ones waiting for a puppy – we are excited for you and with you. If you insist, I can make you a shiny floored advert…..

Baltic Amber

This flea and tick season we decided to up our natural arsenal of defenses against fleas and ticks. After already finding 2-3 ticks on the dogs (one on myself) we knew this was going to be a difficult season. 

We already utilize Wondercide cedar peppermint spray, a variety of Young Living Essential oils sprayed on ourselves and the dogs and their bedding daily but also now we have the dogs wearing Baltic Amber collars.

The collars are 100% natural and chemical free.

Amber is a natural tree resin fossilized over millions of years. It is found on the shores of the Baltic sea and also is mined from underground galleries. Amber has been appreciated for its color, natural beauty and healing properties in folk medicine since New Stone age.

When unpolished amber rubs against your pets fur it works in two ways. It releases aromatic terpines which naturally repel fleas and ticks. Also the friction with the amber creates static electricity which prevents parasites from clinging onto your pets fur.

It can take up to three weeks of wearing the collar to reach maximum repellant effectiveness but it serves as an accessory from the moment you place the beautiful collar onto your pet.  We spray the dogs daily along with the wearing of the collars.

You should allow a finger or two to be able to easily slip between collar and fur. Wash the collar in cold water and soap weekly. They recommend changing the collar for a new one when you see the stones begin to appear polished or shiny. Amber is not a harsh material, therefore it is not recommended that your pets wear them while engaging in rough play or if running through brush or rough conditions. Do not use these collars as a substitute for their walking collar and they are not to be used for restraint. Remove collars for swimming.

We are testing two different companies both of which offered certificates of authenticity. We will report later in the season as to how they worked.

Fighting ticks and fleas naturally

Baltic Raw Amber

This season we are attempting to fight the terrible tick issues here in the south by using every natural method we know of. We always add DE to their food, spray with various essential oil blends (see other posts) and use peppermint Wondercide – but this season we are also going to try using baltic raw amber collars!

Amber is a natural tree resin, which formed over a 30-50 million years period of time. One unique feature of this natural resin is that it has electrostatic properties. These properties were even known and documented by ancient Greeks who even referred to Amber as an Electron.

This electrostatic feature of Amber is extremely useful when fighting ticks and fleas. When your pets wear a collar made of Baltic Amber beads it will be naturally rubbed against its fur. This action will help the amber to generate electricity, which makes it almost impossible for fleas or ticks to stick on your dog’s or cat’s fur.

The other beneficial feature of this natural resin is that it has a specific smell which seems to be not very appealing to ticks and fleas. When Amber beads warmed by your pets fur and body they will start to release its natural odor. So the longer dog or cat wears this type of collar the more effective it can be for fighting various parasites. It usually takes around 3 weeks of wear to have maximum repelling properties.

I will report back how they do!

Using Young Living Essential Oils when breeding

 Essential Oils Meant to Boost Fertility (for humans and dogs alike)

There are several essential oils that may have fertility boosting qualities:

  • Geranium: This oil is fantastic for balancing hormones and regulating a bitch’s cycle. It also has the soothing effect of calming emotions and eliminate stress.
  • Calendula: Great for topical application blended with a carrier oil such as almond oil, Calendula is an anti-inflammatory oil that may help to regulate a bitch’s cycle. This is also a fantastic sensitive-skin oil.
  • German Chamomile: With anti-inflammatory properties, this oil may help reduce pain, while also improving chances of conception.
  • Yarrow: A detoxifying oil, Yarrow helps to relieve pelvic congestion and prevent inflammation. It is also beneficial for the digestive and urinary tracts.
  • Clary Sage: Influencing estrogen levels, Clary Sage helps the body to regulate its hormones naturally. This oil may also help with your stud’s fertility, treating hormone imbalances.
  • Ginger: This oil has antispasmodic, anti-inflammatory and antioxidant benefits. It also aids in the digestive system and supports healthy circulation.